1. Start with your loved one’s needs and goals
Before looking at websites and brochures, it helps to be clear on what you actually need support with.
Complex care is not just about clinical tasks – it’s also about quality of life.
Think about today
- What does a “good day” look like for your loved one?
- Where do they struggle most – mobility, personal care, eating, breathing, memory?
- What clinical tasks are involved (for example, tracheostomy care, PEG feeding, catheter care)?
- When do they feel most anxious or unsafe – overnight, when alone, during transfers?
Think about tomorrow
- Is the condition stable, improving or likely to progress?
- Will needs change after hospital discharge or rehabilitation?
- Do you expect to need nights or live-in care in the future?
- How much are family or friends realistically able to do long term?
Having this picture clear will make it easier to see whether a home care provider can genuinely meet your
needs – and to avoid buying “off the shelf” packages that don’t fit.